Unlocking Leadership Success: Power of Positive Persuasion

In today’s fast-paced and diverse business environment, the art of persuasion is more critical than ever for leaders. It forms an important part of their communication skills arsenal. It’s not about swaying others through deceit or manipulation but about genuine communication and mutual understanding. Persuasion, when practiced with authenticity, can foster collaboration, inspire action, and drive team success.

Unlocking Leadership Success: Power of Positive Persuasion

Here’s how you can harness this essential leadership skill:

1. Active Listening:

The foundation of persuasion is understanding the needs, concerns, and motivations of your audience. Active listening involves not just hearing words but also empathising with the speaker’s perspective. When you truly listen, you can tailor your approach to address specific needs and objections.

2. Establish Credibility:

Before you can persuade anyone, you must establish yourself as a credible and trustworthy leader. Consistency in your words and actions, expertise in your field, and a reputation for keeping your commitments all contribute to your credibility. When your team trusts your judgment and integrity, they are more likely to be persuaded by you.

3. Adaptability:

Effective managers recognise that different people have different communication styles and preferences. Adapt your approach to suit your audience. Some may respond well to data and logic, while others may be more influenced by emotional appeals or anecdotes.

4. Clarity and Conciseness:

Complex or elaborate messages can undermine your persuasive efforts. Clear and concise communication is essential. Be prepared to put your ideas into simple, understandable terms that resonate with your audience. Avoid jargon or technical language that may alienate or confuse.

Unlocking Leadership Success: Power of Positive Persuasion

5. Building Relationships:

Strong interpersonal relationships are the bedrock of persuasion. Take the time to build trust and rapport with your team members. Show genuine interest in their well-being and be approachable and accessible. When your team feels a personal connection with you, they are more likely to be receptive to ideas.

6. Use Storytelling:

Human beings are naturally drawn to stories. Use anecdotes and real-life examples to illustrate your points and make your arguments relatable. Stories engage emotions and can leave a lasting impact.

7. Highlight Benefits:

When presenting your ideas, focus on the benefits and advantages they bring. Explain how your proposal will solve problems, improve efficiency, or contribute to the team’s success. People are more likely to be persuaded when they see the direct value of your proposal.

8. Address Objections:

Acknowledging and addressing objections head-on can enhance your credibility. It demonstrates that you’ve considered all perspectives and have well-thought-out responses.

Unlocking Leadership Success: Power of Positive Persuasion

9. Use Social Proof:

People are influenced by others. Share success stories or examples of how your proposal has worked elsewhere or highlight the support your idea has received from respected colleagues or experts.

10. Timing is Key:

Consider when it’s best to present your ideas, think about the team’s workload, current circumstances, and even individual moods. Present your proposals when your audience is most receptive.

11. Practice Patience:

Don’t become discouraged if your ideas aren’t immediately embraced. Be patient and continue to build your case, addressing concerns as they arise and adapting your approach as needed.

Conclusion

True persuasion is an essential facet of impactful leadership. It’s not just about getting your way but about bridging gaps, fostering mutual respect, and guiding your team toward shared visions. As you hone these skills, you’ll find not only more success as a leader but also deeper, more genuine connections with your team. Embrace persuasion, and empower your leadership journey.

Decisiveness – how willing are you?

With an increased focus on self-responsibility, most organizations expect their employees to make decisions. Consequently, decisiveness is a key competence for those in leadership positions and beyond.

Decisiveness is different to decision making. Decision making is the ability to make quick, confident, and effective decisions. Decisiveness is the willingness to make the decision. High quality decisions require both decision-making skills and decisiveness.

So, What Gets in the Way of our Willingness?

The willingness to make decisions is closely linked to our personality type and thinking style. When you better understand how you behave in different decision-making situations, you can start to work on your strong and weak points.

Based on the principles of Myers-Briggs in the MBTI, our decision making style can fall into four preferences. Each preference has its own obstacles.

Analytical

Analytical people are likely to say, ‘Have we thought of everything? ‘Do we have all the information?’ or ‘I need to think about it’.

They will be reluctant to decide until they are sure that all of the information has been logically analysed and considered. They are happier when a structured process has been followed.

Driver

Drivers are likely to say, ‘Just do this,’ ‘I don’t care what you do just make a decision,’ or ‘Let me know when you have made a decision’ (while I get on with more important things).

They are confident to make practical and quick decisions in ambiguous situations based on common sense, experience, and the facts they can see and know right now. If the situation requires more long range analysis, they will leave that to others but will be impatient and push them to make a decision.

Team Player

Team Players are likely to ask, ‘What will others feel about it?’

They will always consider their personal values and the impact of the decision on people. They may be happy to go along with the group consensus and will rarely criticise the opinions of others. When left to themselves they will be reluctant to make an unpopular decision.

 

Intuitor

An Intuitor will ask ‘What if we did this?’ or say ‘We could do this’

An Intuitor will focus on an objective and produce a lot of ideas of their own as well as build on the ideas of others to achieve it. They will find in depth analysis of ideas frustrating. Rather than make a firm decision they will prefer to experiment and try things until they find a solution that works.

 

Ask yourself, which type seems most like me? Is there another type that could be a backup? Do I change my style if I am under pressure?

 

The Ideal  Team for Decision Making

In an ideal world we would have a decision-making team including all four types but unfortunately, we don’t often have that luxury. Usually, we are on our own and feeling pretty stressed. This is when we need to take the time to ask ourselves the questions others would.

Our Analytical partner would ask, Is there a logical conclusion? Can we list the pros and cons of each option? Do we know what the costs of each option are? Can we prioritise options?

A Driver would ask, What do we know about the situation? What are the facts? Do we have all the facts? What have we done so far and what were the results? What do we need to accomplish next?

Our Team Player would ask, Do these answers support or violate our values? How will people (ours, customers, vendors) react to the outcome? Who will commit to putting in the sacrifice needed to accomplish these goals?

And an Intuitor would ask, Where are we trying to go? What should the end results be? Have we considered multiple possibilities? What does the data seem to imply?

Conclusion

Having answered our imaginary team, we will be better placed to have the willingness to make that decision and the confidence to stand by it.