Strategies for Dealing with Conflict

Strategies for Dealing with Conflict

Workplace conflict is an inevitable occurrence that can disrupt productivity, erode team cohesion, and even impact job satisfaction. However, the presence of conflict doesn’t have to spell disaster. With the right strategies, conflicts can be managed constructively, fostering growth and enhancing collaboration among team members. Here are some effective approaches.

  1. Open Communication:

The foundation of conflict resolution lies in open and honest communication. Encouraging all involved to express their perspectives and concerns can help unearth the root causes of the conflict. Active listening is crucial in this phase, as it demonstrates respect for each individual’s viewpoint. A safe environment where everyone feels heard promotes understanding and paves the way for finding common ground.

  1. Address Issues Early:

Procrastination in dealing with conflicts often make the situation worse. Tackling conflicts as soon as they arise prevents them from worsening and becoming more complex. Timely intervention allows for quick resolution and minimises the negative impact for all.

  1. Neutral Mediation:

In cases where conflicts appear are complicated, involving a neutral mediator can be really helpful. They can objectively assess the situation, facilitate discussions, and guide all towards a mutually acceptable solution. Mediation encourages compromise and ensures that everyone’s concerns are taken into account.

  1. Focus on Interests, Not Positions:

Strategies for Dealing with Conflict

 

During conflict resolution, it’s common for individuals to become fixated on their positions. A more effective approach is to shift the focus towards identifying underlying interests. By addressing these interests, solutions can be created that meet everyone’s needs without compromising on key issues.

  1. Collaborative Problem Solving:

Encouraging collaborative problem-solving. By working together to find solutions, individuals can pool their strengths and creativity to generate outcomes that benefit all. This approach fosters a sense of unity and shared responsibility for the team’s success.

  1. Constructive Feedback:

Offering feedback constructively is vital to conflict resolution. Be specific about behaviours or actions, rather than making general accusations. Frame the feedback in a way that highlights the impact of the behaviour and focuses on finding ways to improve moving forward.

  1. Respect Differences:

Strategies for Dealing with Conflict

Encourage an environment where differences are respected and valued. Acknowledging that some disagreements can lead to innovative solutions can help reduce tension and foster a culture of collaboration.

  1. Set Clear Boundaries:

Establishing clear boundaries and expectations for behaviour can prevent conflicts from arising. When individuals know what is considered acceptable and unacceptable, they are more likely to respect these boundaries, minimising the potential for misunderstandings and disputes.

  1. Training and Development:

Providing training in conflict resolution skills equips team members and leaders with the tools needed to address conflicts effectively. These skills include active listening, assertive communication, negotiation, and emotional intelligence. Investing in such training can have a long-lasting positive impact on the team’s overall dynamics.

  1. Learn from Conflict:

Rather than viewing conflict as a negative experience, approach it as an opportunity for growth. After resolving a conflict, take the time to reflect on what was learned and how the team can avoid similar conflicts in the future. Continuous improvement based on past experiences can lead to a more harmonious and productive work environment.

Conclusion

Workplace conflict is challenging, but it can be managed. Conflict resolution isn’t about erasing differences; it’s about harnessing those differences to create a stronger, more united team.

Further Reading

Effective Communication Skills. 3 tips to address Conflict

Five Vital Skills for Project Managers – Leadership

The First 90 Days: A Guide for New Managers

30 days – Leadership

Congratulations on your promotion!

This is the forming stage for your team. Team members will be feeling uncertain about their new manager and how things might change. If they are happy with their current situation they will be skeptical and resistant. If they are unhappy, they are going to be looking to you to improve their lot. You need to step up and take the lead and also inspire and build trust.

However, you also need to understand what is expected of you from your direct managers. You can’t lead a team unless you are given some idea of where you need to go and why.

The First 90 Days, a guide for new Managers

What you need from your manager(s)

  • What is expected of you?
  • What are your objectives and how do they link to corporate strategy?
  • How will your performance be measured?

What your team needs from you

  • Build trust by doing what you say you will do
  • Regular team meetings
  • Set clear expectations about ‘how we do things around here’
  • Explain what the team’s purpose is and how each person contributes to that
  • Get to know what everyone does and how the processes work
  • Look for ways to improve efficiency and productivity
  • Observe, ask questions, and learn
  • Make firm decisions for the team
  • Understand the strengths and weaknesses in the team
  • Provide encouragement and feedback

60 days – Management

 Now that you have built some confidence as a leader it is time to also manage the productivity of the team as well as focus on individuals. You need to provide clear direction, delegate effectively, monitor results, and provide helpful feedback.

Ask for clear KPIs from your Manager and then translate them into team and individual goals. Your task as a manager is to focus and motivate the team to achieve goals and you can’t do that unless you understand them as individuals.

Now is the time to introduce slight changes to process to improve efficiency. Expect resistance from some, so clearly explain the benefits for the individual, focusing on what motivates them.

The First 90 Days, a guide for new Managers

From your managers

  • Clear KPIs
  • Feedback and coaching

To your team

  • Have regular 1:1 meetings with your team members
  • Get to know individuals – what they enjoy and don’t enjoy, how they prefer to be managed, and what motivates them
  • Provide ongoing training and coaching where required
  • Provide continuous feedback
  • Delegate more tasks
  • Introduce minor changes to improve efficiency and productivity
  • Set clear goals and KPIs in line with departmental objectives


    90 days – Development

 Now that the team has had some time to settle down and you have proven they can trust you, they should be working together more smoothly. Now you can start to focus on building the capability within the team and developing individual skills. You can delegate more responsibility and also involve the team in decision making and planning. This will provide individuals with more ownership which leads to stronger engagement.
The First 90 Days, a guide for new Managers

From your managers

  • Feedback and coaching
  • Support for your ideas and plan for the next quarter

    To your team
  • Regular Team and 1:1 meetings with your team members
  • Celebration of wins
  • Continuous feedback
  • Ongoing coaching and training
  • Support where required
  • Individual motivation
  • Ask for more ideas to improve efficiency and productivity
  • Involve the team in decision making
  • Delegate more responsibility to individuals
  • Enable the team to succeed by providing the resources they need

Summary

The first 90 days as a manager are always challenging, but by focusing more of your attention on the team than on your own tasks during this time, you will find your new role much less demanding and stressful overall.

Further reading:

If you are a new manager, or an experienced manager who wants to apply a little more theory to your practice, have a look at a bit of further reading!

 3 Skills for New Managers – blog

New Managers: How to Boost Efficiency with Introduction to Management Expert Tips – Infographic