{"id":4668,"date":"2021-03-08T08:11:38","date_gmt":"2021-03-08T08:11:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/?p=4668"},"modified":"2023-12-31T01:51:04","modified_gmt":"2023-12-31T01:51:04","slug":"3-ways-to-challenge-imposter-syndrome-and-feel-confident","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/3-ways-to-challenge-imposter-syndrome-and-feel-confident\/","title":{"rendered":"3 Ways to Challenge Imposter Syndrome and Feel Confident"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/sites\/melodywilding\/2019\/10\/15\/3-ways-to-banish-insecurity-and-imposter-syndrome\/#8ad622f4cdd2\" class=\"broken_link\">Nearly 70% of people<\/a> experience\u00a0<strong>Impostor Syndrome<\/strong>. And it is particularly common among women and people from minority populations &#8211; so how can we overcome it?<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.pexels.com\/photos\/3184396\/pexels-photo-3184396.jpeg?auto=compress&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;h=750&amp;w=1260\" alt=\"Group of People Standing Indoors\" \/><\/p>\n<h4>What is imposter syndrome?<\/h4>\n<p><em>\u201cThe whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, and wiser people so full of doubts\u201d<br \/>\n<\/em>Bertrand Russell \u2013 Philosopher<\/p>\n<p>The term was defined by clinical psychologists Pauline Clance and Suzanne Imes in 1978, when they found that despite having adequate external evidence of accomplishments, people with imposter syndrome remained convinced that they didn\u2019t deserve the success that they had. They felt like an imposter by not being qualified and\/or capable of performing efficiently in that role.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"\/syl\/347\/dealing-with-imposter-syndrome.html\">Building up self-confidence and self-esteem can help<\/a>, however the source of feeling like an imposter could come more from the way we are conditioned to think about how things are supposed to be.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel that you don\u2019t \u201clook like\u201d the person who should do that role, you are more likely to feel like an imposter. It is a real feeling based on shared perceptions that we have about what something or someone is \u201csupposed\u201d to look like \u2013 it can come from our early conditioning, our assumptions and our biases.<\/p>\n<p>Watch this TED talk to learn more about Imposter Syndrome:<\/p>\n<div class=\"lyte-wrapper\" title=\"What is imposter syndrome and how can you combat it? - Elizabeth Cox\" style=\"width:640px;max-width:100%;margin:5px auto;\"><div class=\"lyMe\" id=\"WYL_ZQUxL4Jm1Lo\" itemprop=\"video\" itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/VideoObject\"><div><meta itemprop=\"thumbnailUrl\" content=\"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/wp-content\/plugins\/wp-youtube-lyte\/lyteCache.php?origThumbUrl=https%3A%2F%2Fi.ytimg.com%2Fvi%2FZQUxL4Jm1Lo%2Fhqdefault.jpg\" \/><meta itemprop=\"embedURL\" content=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ZQUxL4Jm1Lo\" \/><meta itemprop=\"duration\" content=\"PT4M19S\" \/><meta itemprop=\"uploadDate\" content=\"2018-08-28T15:01:54Z\" \/><\/div><meta itemprop=\"accessibilityFeature\" content=\"captions\" \/><div id=\"lyte_ZQUxL4Jm1Lo\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/wp-content\/plugins\/wp-youtube-lyte\/lyteCache.php?origThumbUrl=https%3A%2F%2Fi.ytimg.com%2Fvi%2FZQUxL4Jm1Lo%2Fhqdefault.jpg\" class=\"pL\"><div class=\"tC\"><div class=\"tT\" itemprop=\"name\">What is imposter syndrome and how can you combat it? - Elizabeth Cox<\/div><\/div><div class=\"play\"><\/div><div class=\"ctrl\"><div class=\"Lctrl\"><\/div><div class=\"Rctrl\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><noscript><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/ZQUxL4Jm1Lo\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/wp-content\/plugins\/wp-youtube-lyte\/lyteCache.php?origThumbUrl=https%3A%2F%2Fi.ytimg.com%2Fvi%2FZQUxL4Jm1Lo%2F0.jpg\" alt=\"What is imposter syndrome and how can you combat it? - Elizabeth Cox\" width=\"640\" height=\"340\" \/><br \/>Watch this video on YouTube<\/a><\/noscript><meta itemprop=\"description\" content=\"Explore the psychology behind imposter syndrome, and get tips on how you can combat feelings of doubt in your accomplishments. -- Even after writing eleven books and winning several awards, Maya Angelou couldn\u2019t escape the doubt that she hadn\u2019t earned her accomplishments. This feeling of fraudulence is extremely common. Why can\u2019t so many of us shake feelings that our ideas and skills aren\u2019t worthy of others\u2019 attention? Elizabeth Cox describes the psychology behind the imposter syndrome, and what you can do to combat it. Lesson by Elizabeth Cox, directed by Sharon Colman. 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Without you this video would not be possible! Divina Grace Dar Santos, Brian Richards, Farah Abdelwahab, Joe Meyers, Mikhail Shkirev, Rapha\u00ebl LAURENT, Malcolm Callis, Sweetmilkcoco, David Matthew Ezroj, Ever Granada, fatima kried, Begum Tutuncu, Lala Arguelles, Mehmet Sencer KARADAYI, Christian Kurch, SungGyeong Bae, Luis Felipe Ruiz Langenscheidt, Joe Huang, Rohan Gupta, Senjo Limbu, Martin Lau, Robson Martinho, Jason Garcia, Cailin Ramsey, Aaron Henson, John Saveland, Nicolle Fieldsend-Roxborough, Venkat Venkatakrishnan, Sandy Nasser, QIUJING L BU, Yoga Trapeze Wanderlust, Jaron Blackburn, Alejandro Cachoua, Thomas Mungavan, Elena Crescia, Edla Paniguel, Sarah Lundegaard, Anna-Pitschna Kunz, Tim Armstrong, Erika Blanquez, Ricki Daniel Marbun, zjweele13, Judith Benavides, Ken, and Caitlin de Falco.\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"lL\" style=\"max-width:100%;width:640px;margin:5px auto;\"><br\/><span class=\"lyte_disclaimer\">[If you interact with the embedded video above and your browser is set to allow cookies, you agree for this 3rd party service to create and store local 3rd party cookies on your device.]<\/span><\/div><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><strong>3 Ways to Challenge Imposter Syndrome<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><strong>Know how you respond to stress<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>People can respond to the anxiety of imposter syndrome in one of two ways: either through striving for perfectionism by overworking; or by taking avoiding action to keep themselves safe, rarely speaking up or seeking out new challenges.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/gb\/blog\/real-women\/201809\/the-reality-imposter-syndrome\">Get a sense of how you respond to stress<\/a>. Are you an over-worker or an avoider? If you over-work, learn to be more assertive and state what your needs are rather than saying yes to everything. If you are an avoider and you want to start voicing your opinion more, make a promise to yourself to speak up in the first 15 minutes of a meeting so that you short-circuit your natural tendency to hold back.<\/p>\n<p>At STL we run several training sessions that can help with these skills, including <a href=\"\/syl\/84\/building-confidence-and-assertiveness-at-work-1.html\">Building Confidence and Assertiveness<\/a>, <a href=\"\/ps-stress-management.php\">Stress Management<\/a> and <a href=\"\/presentation-skills-london.php\">Presentation Skills<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Put your emotions into words<br \/>\n<\/strong>Learning to cope with difficult emotions like self-doubt will help you increase your mental strength. Studies show that people who ignore negative emotions experience more distress and can engage in destructive behaviours.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 1rem\">Identifying and labelling feelings will combat the stressful feelings that arise with impostor syndrome. Expand your emotional vocabulary so that you can better deal with anxiety and worry when it arises. Simply labelling your inner experience is a powerful way to keep insecurity from ruling you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Listen to your inner dialogue &amp; change it!<br \/>\n<\/strong>We can be our own worst critic, putting ourselves down, not acknowledging our accomplishments and criticising what we are capable of doing.<\/p>\n<p>For one week, try writing down your thoughts and noting your inner dialogue. How are you judging yourself? Are you putting yourself down internally?<\/p>\n<p>Try to start using positive words and positive-yet-realistic phrases. It\u2019s not easy to admit out loud that you feel insecure, so begin by changing the words, and the mental approach will follow.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Conclusion<br \/>\n<\/strong>Don\u2019t forget that many smart, successful and competent people feel like imposters in their jobs. The most limiting part of imposter syndrome is that it can curtail our courage to go after new opportunities, explore new interests or put ourselves forward for new exciting opportunities.<\/p>\n<p>Try implementing the 3 tips above to start you on the path to conquering imposter syndrome and reaching your full potential.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nearly 70% of people experience\u00a0Impostor Syndrome. And it is particularly common among women and people from minority populations &#8211; so how can we overcome it? What is imposter syndrome? \u201cThe whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, and wiser people so full of doubts\u201d Bertrand Russell [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[632,633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4668","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-leadership-development","category-professional-development"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4668","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4668"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4668\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5331,"href":"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4668\/revisions\/5331"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4668"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4668"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4668"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}