{"id":3821,"date":"2019-04-12T09:10:40","date_gmt":"2019-04-12T09:10:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/?p=3821"},"modified":"2023-12-31T01:54:12","modified_gmt":"2023-12-31T01:54:12","slug":"improve-your-listening-skills-be-a-better-leader","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/improve-your-listening-skills-be-a-better-leader\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Improve your Listening Skills to be a better Leader"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Read any book or article about the necessary talents to be a great Leader, and effective communication skills are dominate, particularly the ability to be a great listener. Mastering listening is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/sharing\/five-essential-communication-skills\/24\">one of the five key essentials in communication that every Manager needs.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>To get you started, follow these 5 practical tips:<\/p>\n<h4><strong>1) Use open questions, not just closed<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>When you want to uncover your customers needs, improve your negotiation techniques, or understand why there is conflict, use open questions. They are key in understanding the other persons position.<\/p>\n<p>Some people get into the habit of asking closed questions or searching for quick \u2018yes\u2019 or \u2018no\u2019 responses. They make assumptions to try and save time. Open questions are powerful initiators to the art of listening and begin with who, where, what, how and why?<\/p>\n<h4><strong>2) Adapt your listening style to the other person\u2019s culture.<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong>When working with international clients and colleagues, it\u2019s important to adapt your listening style. I worked in Asia for 10 years and found that professionals in China are extremely respectful. They listen intensely to others, especially their Leaders. They acknowledge what is being said \u2018carefully\u2019 and with quiet empathy. Be aware of who you are speaking to, because their culture should influence your listening style.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>3) Practise listening without interrupting<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>You may have heard about <em>active<\/em> listening, it is an important technique to master and uses the powers of the senses. Being able to listen without interrupting is a powerful skill. One of the world\u2019s leading sound experts, Julian Treasure said in his viral <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/julian_treasure_5_ways_to_listen_better\">TED talk &#8211; 5 ways to listen better<\/a> \u201c<em>we are losing our listening<\/em>.\u201c<\/p>\n<div class=\"lyte-wrapper\" title=\"5 ways to listen better | Julian Treasure | TED\" style=\"width:640px;max-width:100%;margin:5px auto;\"><div class=\"lyMe\" id=\"WYL_cSohjlYQI2A\" itemprop=\"video\" itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/VideoObject\"><div><meta itemprop=\"thumbnailUrl\" content=\"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/wp-content\/plugins\/wp-youtube-lyte\/lyteCache.php?origThumbUrl=https%3A%2F%2Fi.ytimg.com%2Fvi%2FcSohjlYQI2A%2Fhqdefault.jpg\" \/><meta itemprop=\"embedURL\" content=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/cSohjlYQI2A\" \/><meta itemprop=\"duration\" content=\"PT7M51S\" \/><meta itemprop=\"uploadDate\" content=\"2011-07-29T18:21:09Z\" \/><\/div><meta itemprop=\"accessibilityFeature\" content=\"captions\" \/><div id=\"lyte_cSohjlYQI2A\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/wp-content\/plugins\/wp-youtube-lyte\/lyteCache.php?origThumbUrl=https%3A%2F%2Fi.ytimg.com%2Fvi%2FcSohjlYQI2A%2Fhqdefault.jpg\" class=\"pL\"><div class=\"tC\"><div class=\"tT\" itemprop=\"name\">5 ways to listen better | Julian Treasure | TED<\/div><\/div><div class=\"play\"><\/div><div class=\"ctrl\"><div class=\"Lctrl\"><\/div><div class=\"Rctrl\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><noscript><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/cSohjlYQI2A\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/b\/wp-content\/plugins\/wp-youtube-lyte\/lyteCache.php?origThumbUrl=https%3A%2F%2Fi.ytimg.com%2Fvi%2FcSohjlYQI2A%2F0.jpg\" alt=\"5 ways to listen better | Julian Treasure | TED\" width=\"640\" height=\"340\" \/><br \/>Watch this video on YouTube<\/a><\/noscript><meta itemprop=\"description\" content=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com In our louder and louder world, says sound expert Julian Treasure, &quot;We are losing our listening.&quot; In this short, fascinating talk, Treasure shares five ways to re-tune your ears for conscious listening -- to other people and the world around you. TEDTalks is a daily video podcast of the best talks and performances from the TED Conference, where the world&#039;s leading thinkers and doers give the talk of their lives in 18 minutes. Featured speakers have included Al Gore on climate change, Philippe Starck on design, Jill Bolte Taylor on observing her own stroke, Nicholas Negroponte on One Laptop per Child, Jane Goodall on chimpanzees, Bill Gates on malaria and mosquitoes, Pattie Maes on the &quot;Sixth Sense&quot; wearable tech, and &quot;Lost&quot; producer JJ Abrams on the allure of mystery. TED stands for Technology, Entertainment, Design, and TEDTalks cover these topics as well as science, business, development and the arts. Closed captions and translated subtitles in a variety of languages are now available on TED.com, at http:\/\/www.ted.com\/translate. Join Live Conversation with the speaker Julian Treasure on What a conscious listening world be like and how do we get there? October 10th, 1pm - 2.30 pm EDT http:\/\/www.ted.com\/conversations\/6084\/live_conversation_with_ted_spe.html\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"lL\" style=\"max-width:100%;width:640px;margin:5px auto;\"><br\/><span class=\"lyte_disclaimer\">[If you interact with the embedded video above and your browser is set to allow cookies, you agree for this 3rd party service to create and store local 3rd party cookies on your device.]<\/span><\/div><\/p>\n<p>Next time you engage with colleagues, clients or family, listen with intent. You may discover more than you might imagine and build an even stronger relationship.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>4) Don\u2019t think about what you will say while the other person is speaking.<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>In this <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.co.uk\/alice-haddon\/the-power-of-listening_b_16494082.html?guccounter=1&amp;guce_referrer_us=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvLnVrLw&amp;guce_referrer_cs=Yjok5pZjjvZU7rZkOOobJw\">interesting article in the Huffington Post<\/a> there is a unique definition of effective listening:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>Listening involves letting the person finish their sentence completely and orientating your response around them, not yourself.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Listen without thinking about a response or question, therefore avoiding the distractions of <em>how<\/em> you are going to reply. This will help you to see non-verbal cues and identify those things that are not being said.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>5) Actively listen for what\u2019s under the surface<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Look for cues in tone and body language and actively seek what\u2019s not being said but being suggested. This can be led by the emphasis on <em>how<\/em> the person presents the conversation, their conviction and their attitude.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Take the next step<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>If you are a new or an experienced Manager, there is no doubt that effective listening skills are essential. They optimise productivity, efficiency and performance. With so much at stake, I encourage you to make a start as soon as possible. Find out more with our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.stl-training.co.uk\/ps-effective-communication-skills.php\">Effective Communication Training Course<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Read any book or article about the necessary talents to be a great Leader, and effective communication skills are dominate, particularly the ability to be a great listener. Mastering listening is one of the five key essentials in communication that every Manager needs. 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